{"id":2420,"date":"2026-02-28T21:02:33","date_gmt":"2026-02-28T21:02:33","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/eduhaber.net.tr\/?p=2420"},"modified":"2026-03-01T10:17:04","modified_gmt":"2026-03-01T10:17:04","slug":"basari-mi-deger-mi-lgs-yilinda-evdeki-asil-sinav","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/eduhaber.net.tr\/index.php\/2026\/02\/28\/basari-mi-deger-mi-lgs-yilinda-evdeki-asil-sinav\/","title":{"rendered":"Masum C\u00fcmleler, B\u00fcy\u00fck Kayg\u0131lar"},"content":{"rendered":"

LGS\u00a0y\u0131l\u0131\u00a0bir\u00e7ok\u00a0aile\u00a0i\u00e7in\u00a0gelecek\u00a0y\u0131l\u0131d\u0131r.\u00a0Evde\u00a0konu\u015fulan\u00a0konular\u00a0de\u011fi\u015fir,\u00a0g\u00fcndem\u00a0daral\u0131r,\u00a0ba\u015far\u0131\u00a0merkezli\u00a0bir\u00a0atmosfer\u00a0olu\u015fur.\u00a0\u00c7o\u011fu\u00a0ebeveyn\u00a0\u00e7ocu\u011funu\u00a0motive\u00a0etti\u011fini\u00a0d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr.\u00a0Oysa\u00a0iyi\u00a0niyetle\u00a0kurulan\u00a0baz\u0131\u00a0c\u00fcmleler, fark\u00a0edilmeden\u00a0kayg\u0131n\u0131n\u00a0temelini\u00a0atabilir.<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Bu\u00a0sene\u00a0\u00e7ok\u00a0\u00f6nemli.<\/span>
\nHayat\u0131n\u00a0bu\u00a0s\u0131nava\u00a0ba\u011fl\u0131.<\/span>
\nBiz\u00a0senin\u00a0ya\u015f\u0131ndayken\u2026<\/span>
\nDaha\u00a0\u00e7ok\u00a0\u00e7al\u0131\u015fmal\u0131s\u0131n.<\/span>
\n\u015eu\u00a0netlerle\u00a0olmaz.<\/span>
\nAman\u00a0dikkat\u00a0et,\u00a0hata\u00a0yapma.<\/span>
\nAkraban\u0131n\u00a0k\u0131z\u0131\u00a0480\u00a0ald\u0131.<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Bu\u00a0c\u00fcmlelerin\u00a0her\u00a0biri\u00a0tek\u00a0ba\u015f\u0131na\u00a0masum\u00a0g\u00f6r\u00fcnebilir.\u00a0Ancak\u00a0tekrarland\u0131\u011f\u0131nda\u00a0\u00e7ocukta\u00a0\u015fu\u00a0mesaj\u00a0yerle\u015fir:\u00a0De\u011ferim\u00a0ba\u015far\u0131m\u00a0kadar.<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00d6zellikle\u00a0LGS\u00a0gibi\u00a0merkezi\u00a0s\u0131nav\u00a0d\u00f6nemlerinde\u00a0\u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u00a0en\u00a0b\u00fcy\u00fck\u00a0ihtiyac\u0131\u00a0g\u00fcven\u00a0duygusudur.\u00a0Fakat\u00a0s\u00fcrekli\u00a0performans\u00a0vurgusu\u00a0yap\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131nda,\u00a0ba\u015far\u0131\u00a0bir\u00a0hedef\u00a0olmaktan\u00a0\u00e7\u0131kar\u00a0ve\u00a0bir\u00a0kimlik\u00a0meselesine\u00a0d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcr.\u00a0\u00c7ocuk\u00a0art\u0131k\u00a0iyi\u00a0bir\u00a0sonu\u00e7\u00a0almak\u00a0i\u00e7in\u00a0de\u011fil,\u00a0yeterli\u00a0biri\u00a0oldu\u011funu\u00a0kan\u0131tlamak\u00a0i\u00e7in\u00a0\u00e7al\u0131\u015fmaya\u00a0ba\u015flar. Bu\u00a0noktada\u00a0kayg\u0131\u00a0devreye\u00a0girer.<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Kayg\u0131\u00a0fizyolojik\u00a0bir\u00a0s\u00fcre\u00e7tir:\u00a0kalp\u00a0\u00e7arp\u0131nt\u0131s\u0131,\u00a0mide\u00a0a\u011fr\u0131s\u0131,\u00a0dikkat\u00a0da\u011f\u0131n\u0131kl\u0131\u011f\u0131,\u00a0uyku\u00a0bozuklu\u011fu. Akademik\u00a0olarak\u00a0iyi\u00a0olan\u00a0bir\u00a0\u00f6\u011frenci,\u00a0s\u0131rf\u00a0hata\u00a0yapma\u00a0korkusuyla\u00a0bildi\u011fini\u00a0s\u0131navda\u00a0kullanamayabilir.\u00a0\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc\u00a0zihni\u00a0\u015fu\u00a0soruyla\u00a0me\u015fguld\u00fcr: Ya\u00a0ba\u015faramazsam?<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Sak\u0131n\u00a0hata\u00a0yapma\u00a0mesaj\u0131\u00a0verilen\u00a0\u00e7ocuk\u00a0risk\u00a0almaktan\u00a0ka\u00e7\u0131n\u0131r. Zor\u00a0soruya\u00a0yakla\u015fmaz. Emin\u00a0olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131\u00a0\u015f\u0131kk\u0131\u00a0i\u015faretlemez.\u00a0Yanl\u0131\u015f\u00a0yapmamak\u00a0i\u00e7in\u00a0potansiyelini\u00a0kullanmaz. Bu da\u00a0ironik\u00a0bi\u00e7imde\u00a0performans\u0131\u00a0d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcr\u00fcr.<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Daha\u00a0iyisini\u00a0yapabilirdin\u00a0c\u00fcmlesi\u00a0ise\u00a0m\u00fckemmeliyet\u00e7ili\u011fi\u00a0besler.\u00a0\u00c7ocuk\u00a0450\u00a0al\u0131r\u00a0ama\u00a0evde\u00a0konu\u015fulan\u00a0480\u2019dir. 90 net\u00a0yapar\u00a0ama\u00a0g\u00fcndem\u00a0yanl\u0131\u015flard\u0131r.\u00a0Ba\u015far\u0131\u00a0yeterli\u00a0hissedilmez.\u00a0B\u00f6yle\u00a0bir\u00a0ortamda\u00a0\u00e7ocuk\u00a0\u015funu\u00a0\u00f6\u011frenir: Ne\u00a0yaparsam\u00a0yapay\u0131m\u00a0eksik. Uzun\u00a0vadede\u00a0bu\u00a0i\u00e7sel\u00a0ele\u015ftirmeni\u00a0g\u00fc\u00e7lendirir\u00a0ve\u00a0t\u00fckenmi\u015fli\u011fe\u00a0zemin\u00a0haz\u0131rlar.<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

K\u0131yas\u00a0da\u00a0kayg\u0131n\u0131n\u00a0en\u00a0g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc\u00a0besinlerinden\u00a0biridir.\u00a0Kom\u015funun\u00a0o\u011flu\u00a0ile\u00a0ba\u015flayan\u00a0c\u00fcmleler\u00a0\u00e7ocu\u011fun\u00a0\u00f6z\u00a0de\u011ferini\u00a0d\u0131\u015f\u00a0referanslara\u00a0ba\u011flar.\u00a0Art\u0131k\u00a0hedef\u00a0kendi\u00a0geli\u015fimi\u00a0de\u011fil,\u00a0ba\u015fkas\u0131n\u0131\u00a0ge\u00e7mektir.\u00a0Oysa\u00a0geli\u015fim\u00a0k\u0131yasla\u00a0de\u011fil,\u00a0ilerlemeyle\u00a0\u00f6l\u00e7\u00fcl\u00fcr.<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Bir\u00a0di\u011fer\u00a0riskli\u00a0c\u00fcmle:\u00a0Biz\u00a0senin\u00a0iyili\u011fin\u00a0i\u00e7in\u00a0s\u00f6yl\u00fcyoruz.\u00a0Niyet\u00a0ger\u00e7ekten\u00a0iyi\u00a0olabilir.\u00a0Ancak\u00a0s\u00fcrekli\u00a0ele\u015ftiri\u00a0bu\u00a0c\u00fcmleyle\u00a0me\u015frula\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131nda\u00a0\u00e7ocuk\u00a0sevgiyi\u00a0ko\u015fullu\u00a0alg\u0131lar.\u00a0Ba\u015far\u0131\u00a0varsa\u00a0huzur\u00a0vard\u0131r,\u00a0yoksa\u00a0gerginlik.\u00a0B\u00f6yle\u00a0bir\u00a0atmosferde\u00a0ders\u00a0\u00e7al\u0131\u015fmak\u00a0\u00f6\u011frenme\u00a0s\u00fcreci\u00a0olmaktan\u00a0\u00e7\u0131kar,\u00a0stres\u00a0y\u00f6netimine\u00a0d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcr.<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

LGS bir s\u0131navd\u0131r; kimlik testi de\u011fil. \u00c7ocu\u011fun karakterini, zek\u00e2s\u0131n\u0131, de\u011ferini \u00f6l\u00e7mez. Ancak aile dili yanl\u0131\u015f kullan\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131nda \u00e7ocuk bunu b\u00f6yle alg\u0131lamaya ba\u015flar. As\u0131l mesele s\u0131nav\u0131n zorlu\u011fu de\u011fil, evdeki psikolojik iklimdir.<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Bu\u00a0s\u00fcre\u00e7te\u00a0ebeveynin\u00a0rol\u00fc\u00a0bask\u0131\u00a0kurmak\u00a0de\u011fil,\u00a0reg\u00fclasyon\u00a0sa\u011flamakt\u0131r.\u00a0\u00c7ocu\u011fun\u00a0kayg\u0131s\u0131n\u0131\u00a0k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fcmsemek\u00a0yerine\u00a0adland\u0131rmak; Bu\u00a0seni\u00a0ger\u00e7ekten\u00a0zorluyor, fark\u00a0ediyorum\u00a0diyebilmek; Daha\u00a0\u00e7ok\u00a0\u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u00a0yerine\u00a0Birlikte\u00a0plan\u00a0yapal\u0131m\u00a0m\u0131\u00a0demek; Bu\u00a0s\u0131nav\u00a0her\u00a0\u015fey\u00a0yerine\u00a0Bu\u00a0\u00f6nemli\u00a0bir\u00a0ad\u0131m\u00a0ama\u00a0tek\u00a0yol\u00a0de\u011fil\u00a0mesaj\u0131n\u0131\u00a0verebilmek\u00a0fark\u00a0yarat\u0131r.<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Ara\u015ft\u0131rmalar\u00a0g\u00f6steriyor\u00a0ki\u00a0destekleyici\u00a0aile\u00a0ortam\u0131nda\u00a0b\u00fcy\u00fcyen\u00a0\u00e7ocuklar\u00a0daha\u00a0istikrarl\u0131\u00a0performans\u00a0sergiler.\u00a0\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc\u00a0zihinleri\u00a0tehdit\u00a0alg\u0131s\u0131yla\u00a0de\u011fil,\u00a0\u00f6\u011frenme\u00a0motivasyonuyla\u00a0\u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131r.\u00a0G\u00fcvende\u00a0hisseden\u00a0\u00e7ocuk\u00a0risk\u00a0al\u0131r,\u00a0denemekten\u00a0korkmaz,\u00a0hata\u00a0yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131nda\u00a0da\u011f\u0131lmaz.<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Unutulmamas\u0131\u00a0gereken\u00a0\u015fu:\u00a0\u00c7ocuklar\u00a0s\u00f6zleri\u00a0de\u011fil,\u00a0tekrar\u00a0eden\u00a0duyguyu\u00a0i\u00e7selle\u015ftirir.\u00a0E\u011fer\u00a0evdeki\u00a0temel\u00a0duygu\u00a0gergin\u00a0beklenti\u00a0ise\u00a0kayg\u0131\u00a0artar.\u00a0E\u011fer\u00a0temel\u00a0duygu\u00a0yan\u0131nday\u0131m\u00a0ise\u00a0dayan\u0131kl\u0131l\u0131k\u00a0geli\u015fir.<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

LGS\u00a0bir\u00a0y\u0131l\u00a0s\u00fcrer. Ama o\u00a0y\u0131l\u00a0boyunca\u00a0kurulan\u00a0c\u00fcmleler\u00a0bazen\u00a0bir\u00a0\u00f6m\u00fcr\u00a0s\u00fcrer.\u00a0Ba\u015far\u0131\u00a0\u00f6nemlidir;\u00a0fakat\u00a0\u00e7ocu\u011fun\u00a0ruh\u00a0sa\u011fl\u0131\u011f\u0131\u00a0daha\u00a0\u00f6nemlidir.\u00a0\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc\u00a0g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc\u00a0bir\u00a0psikoloji\u00a0olmadan\u00a0elde\u00a0edilen\u00a0hi\u00e7bir\u00a0sonu\u00e7\u00a0kal\u0131c\u0131\u00a0tatmin\u00a0getirmez.<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Sonu\u00e7\u00a0ne\u00a0olursa\u00a0olsun,\u00a0sen\u00a0de\u011ferlisin.<\/span><\/p>\n

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Eyl\u00fcl AKBULUT<\/p>\n

PDR Psikolog<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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